not-racist-deactivated20140306 asked: Bitch you gon call me ugly when you're fuckin BLACK? Lmaoooooo shit son you ugly by default the baby Jesus gave you some bad cards in your hand in the game of life like shit I can be pretty if I don't make faces but you'll always be a dirty jiggaboo. Go find some bleach and lemme know when you fix that nasty complexion of yours. Y'all look like a pile of dog shit.
lets not play this “game of life”.
I win you lose
ridiculous. this isn’t even about skin color. it’s just dumb girls trying to make themselves feel better by making the other feel like shit.
let’s just call each other ugly and see who wins! spoiler alert: everyone loses.
How is this not about skin color when this girl came in zizino’s inbox calling her racial slurs and being gross? Please enlighten me
It’s her fault for calling a beautiful person ugly when she looks so… Unfortunate :(
LOL! This is literally about race and yt people still say it’s not.
And it gets better.
But it’s not about race.
Def not about race.
It’s amazing the mental acrobatics white folks will perform to absolve another white person of racism while simultaneously placing equal blame on the black person the racist attacked. Like how in the hell?
Maybe instead of getting all hype about the racism in this situation (trust me it’s awful), why does nobody care that she called the white girl “ugly”? That’s terrible too…
I think we’re done here
I don’t have an Internet boo someone be my Internet boo isn’t that basic tumblr protocol?
I got you Helen !
lazy-artistgal-deactivated20140 asked: I see on this blog that preference is bad? I hope I don't come off as bad for this, but I am a woc and prefer other races than black men. Growing up my mother always told me and my siblings how black men are most likely to cheat, go to jail, have baby mamas, and lazy. I used to go to an all black school were the boys were horrid to their girlfriend and threaten them. I know not all black men are like this, but I just can't shake off the things my mother who is a woc say and the things I've seen.
Yeah everything you’ve just said is disgustingly anti-black. Like what you just wrote not only holds absolutely no basis but is some of the most disgustingly racist anti-black racist bullcrap I’ve ever read. I am disgusted, and if I’m honest based on what you just wrote black men don’t need someone as gross and anti-black in their life as you.
Ok dang they need to chill like honestly the girl obviously grew up in a household where her mom ingrained that ideology into her impressionable mind sheesh like damn
She’s not gonna snap out of it just because you insult her
How bout being nice an helping her realize how awesome black people can be when they aren’t being condescending bitches..just a suggestion
You’re calling me a condescending bitch? What the fuck do you think this is? A minstrel show? Am I supposed to put together some slide show proving “how awesome black men are”? Have you lost your fucking mind? If I were you I’d watch my step because I’m so close to ripping your ridiculously dense self a new one.
I don’t understand why people act like reacting to racism with anger is problematic. That shit is infuriating and ugly and violent. Yet you’re supposed to be this inhumanly saintly and patient educator? The burden of ignorance is on the person spouting the racist ideology, not the people who find that despicable shit despicable. It’s like blaming the teacher because you failed a test you didn’t study for.
I just don’t get that shit. “Blah blah racism,” “Fuck off,” “Omg how could you?” The fuck is wrong with some people.
She just grew up with an ideology. And our envioments and social interactions does shape who we’re attracted to and unattracted to. I have a cousin who states that he isn’t attracted to black women because of AB and C experiences. As a WoC myself I’m not attracted to black men, but I still love them. I have good friendships with a few and obviously all my male relatives on my mother side of the family are black, and they mean the world to me. Honestly I think my reason is the same. More or less from observing the black men I was surrounded with or saw on those horrid reality tv shows and in the general public; for those whom I had constant interactions with (school, family, etc) I saw patterned qualities that repelled me and still does.. But then agian she has the right to be attracted to anyone she likes. If she has a preference she can have it. You can’t police black women bodies. If you read gradient lair’s blog she speaks of black men and criticise them. Not to say other races are saintly, they’ve done some pretty nasty shit too when it comes to black women. But see growing up all the white/hispanic/asian guys were super nice to me and the blacks would call me all sorts of bitches and then fat or lame. So that shifted my attractions.
Another pathetic and lame excuse for anti-blackness. You should be ashamed of yourself, because I’m disgusted. Don’t you dare compare your anti-black drivel to the writing of Gradient Lair, of course she criticises them we are black women we want an end to patriarchal ideals within our communities. I’m pretty sure all women levy criticism of men within our communities. That does not mean we refuse to look at them as romantic partners because of anti-black racist stereotypes. You are disgusting.
I only named an experience not a stereotype. I shared something that I personally have went through. Also Dr.Kanazawa does not own psychology today. If that was so unsatisfactory to you, then do your own research on human attraction. And stop repeating the rhetoric phrases of me being anti-black and disgusting, it shows you have very limited understanding on the matter. A stereotype would be “All black men are horrible thugs” with no actual experience with black men. Or “Black men are abusive” without actually suffered abuse from black men. :p At this point I can’t really take you seriously, I’m pretty apathetic towards your argument *yawn* Come back when you’ve done your homework(researched physical and psychological attractions in humans) then we can have a grown woman convo. Until then stop replying with same fleeting useless boring comebacks like “you’re disgusting” “you are anti-black”.
It’s funny to me because if this was said by a white person you’d probably be up in arms, but you think that you are immune from perpetuating anti-blackness. It also amuses me that you think you’re the only person in the world with access to resources to read on these issues. I know that guy doesn’t own the site but if they publish those kinds of articles anybody with common sense would seriously question their credibility. You can *yawn* all you want it won’t change the fact that you are anti-black and unapologetically so as hell. I have several bad experiences with men of different races (including narrowly avoiding being sexually assaulted quite a few times) I have enough sense not to base my judgements on an entire race of men on a few encounters and several racist stereotypes. Unfortunately for you, you don’t have the intelligence to do so. As I said before I hope all that anti-blackness chokes you.
I’m not black, but I am a POC/WOC.
Can someone explain this all to me? How is it racist if she’s saying she’s going from her experiences? Isn’t it experiences that shape preferences? According to what she’s saying, she was conditioned by her environment, and while she knows not all black men are like that, she just prefers otherwise. They’re not stereotyping anyone, they’re speaking from lived experiences.
Look at this person rationalizing all anti-blackness/racism through “Wah lived experiences!” and then trying to say they’re not stereotyping anyone when by definition that’s what they did.
Non-Black people struggle their little hearts out to try and make their hatred of us all gumdrops and lollipops. I swear.
Thank you so much for that. I was asking a question, some sort of explanation for the vitriolic nature of the responses, not attacking anyone, for fuck’s sake. But really, thank you for the passive aggressive lack of actual response.
Also, I’d like to point out that you say “all anti-blackness/racism” as if I just excused everybody. Unlike you, I understand that things are situational, and that you can’t shout “RACISM” the second you see something, because you don’t know the context. I know that racism is fucked up, and I know it exists. She said she prefers other men, not that she hates men of color/black men. She’s careful of black men because she was exposed to shitty things. If a kid gets bit by a dog too many times, it doesn’t make them an awful person for not being the keenest on dogs. If you touch something and it burns, you don’t want to touch it again, even if you know it won’t burn every time. For her, that initial burn was enough that she feels most comfortable not being with a black man. She came to that blog for a reason, probably someone to tell her that she’s okay, she’s not an awful person, and maybe in the hopes that they’d provide her with reasons to not feel the way she does about black men.
But instead she gets shit on by that community.
Also, I’d like to thank you for putting so much emphasis on the fact that I’m not black, for further widening the chasm between “POC/WOC” as it exists between blacks and non-blacks. And y’all complain about microaggressions.
You want to try me today dipshit? There is no excuse for anti-blackness, she didn’t pose a question she simply dropped her list for her dislike of black men and left it at that. And guess what you wanker? I’m not going to sit there and give people presentations on how wonderful black men are how dare you even have the fucking audacity to even suggest I do that? Should I go around to every anti-black piece of shit and try and convince them to respect the humanity of black men? Should I start begging people to judge black men as individuals not based on racist stereotypes and a handful of encounters? She’s on the internet there are hundreds of resources, it’s on her to rid herself of anti-blackness it’s not on me. There are literally hundreds of millions of black men on the planet, and if you think any of what she said is justifiable you’re just as gross and anti-black. I’m not going to stand for anyone perpetuating anti-blackness, whether you’re a POC or not. Don’t try me.
Experiences don’t excuse racism/stereotyping. You’re comparing experiences with inanimate objects with that of live humans, how stupid can you get ? I’ve had terrible experiences with not only Black men or MOC, but white men as well. I’m not gonna sit here and shit on the whole lot because of my “experiences”. There’s no pat on the back for being an asshole, it is what it is. It’s not anyone else’s job to educate ignorance than the ignoramus.